Awakened Relating
A 6 month transformational journey for men
Starts February 1st 2026
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Most Men Spend Their Lives Performing Strength
You're About to Learn How to Embody It.
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Six months
Six Intimacy Keys
Six Masculine Polarities
Six Attachment Principles
Six Authentic Relating Skillsets
Deep transformation.
This isn't a course about dating and seduction strategies or
"alpha male" tactics.
This is a path to becoming the man who
effortlessly creates the kind of connections he wants.
Think of it as a diploma in conscious relationship.
A complete curriculum to live with the power & presence
you always knew was possible.
IF YOU'RE SEEKING MORE...
Maybe you're in a relationship that's lost its spark… and you don't know what to do.
She's distant, defensive, critical, or shut down. The bedroom feels more like a battlefield than a sanctuary.
You've tried being more present, more communicative, more emotionally available… everything the books told you to do, only to watch the passion continue to fade.
Or maybe your relationship is actually pretty good, but now you want it to be great!
Either way, you sense that so much more is possible, but you can't figure out how to get there.
Or maybe you're single, getting friendzoned way too often… or feeling like you just can't find the 'right' one.
You might have a first date, maybe even a few months. But then the chemistry fades. She says she "just wants to be friends" or you don't feel the "spark"… again.
You're tired of being the nice guy women appreciate but don't desire.
Attracting women that aren't a match
Or… habitually running just when things start to get good.
Whatever way you are feeling challenged, you are certain that you are DONE settling for less than what you know is possible.
You want a relationship that's alive and growing… sexually, emotionally, spiritually.
You want to understand how to create and sustain a relationship that you really want to be in... and that lasts.
You want to stop fumbling and start winning.
AWAKENED RELATING MODALITIES
Most relationship programs try to teach you one approach to solve everything.
But this is like learning to use just a hammer, and hoping you can build a house.
Awakened Relating weaves four powerful modalities together into a comprehensive framework that addresses every dimension of conscious partnership…
Four approaches integrated into a complete path of relational transformation.
(click any of the headings below to learn more)

Evolutionary Polarity

The secret to sustainable romantic & erotic chemistry Polarity is the magnetic force between masculine and feminine energies that keeps passion alive long after the honeymoon fades. Most couples lose their spark because they've unconsciously neutralised their differences, trying to be the same instead of leveraging what makes them complementary. Evolutionary Polarity is what happens when we go beyond unconscious gender roles and into an intentional practice of using the charge between the masculine and feminine to generate energy, intimacy, attraction and arousal… whenever you want to.

The Intimacy Keys

Your unique relational blueprint for evolutionary growth The Intimacy Keys is a relational lens on the work of the Gene Keys. This work, based on your astrology, reveals specific patterns of shadows, gifts, and higher potentials offering precision guidance tailored to YOUR unique makeup. Through your personalised Intimacy Keys chart that we provide you with, you discover exactly where your biggest blocks live, what gifts are waiting to emerge, and how your shadows play out relationally. This is a developmental map showing you the path from your current patterns to your highest relational potential. When you know your blueprint, you stop working against yourself and start working with the transformation your system is designed for.

Authentic Relating

The art of conscious connection This is your communication toolbox, providing you with the skills to create the spark of intimacy from the get-go, stay connected through conflict, repair from fights, reveal your deepest truths to one another, set healthy boundaries and take a relationship as deep as you want to go. This work transforms how you communicate, not through scripts or formulas, but through developing the skills and capacity to be WITH another human being in real-time. When you master authentic relating your conversations effortlessly become doorways into deeper intimacy.

Attachment Healing

Foundations of a secure relationship Attachment work heals the early wounding that keeps you stuck in reactive patterns… the anxious pursuit, the avoidant withdrawal, and the exhausting push-pull dance that sabotages intimacy. We work with the underlying principles that leads to a safe, secure and balanced nervous system that allows you to choose the right partner, relax into intimacy and feel deeply settled in relationship. Finally you will be able to stop protecting and start really connecting. The more your attachment wounds heal, the deeper the other modalities will land, and the more a relationship will thrive.

THE TRANSFORMATION
You can't think, negotiate or perform your way into a conscious relationship.
Conscious partnership is embodied… it lives in your nervous system, pulses through your body, exists in the unspoken field you create with a lover.
The beautiful thing is that all of this already lives inside you. It's in your cells, waiting to be revealed.
Over six months of living in this work... something fundamental shifts.
You become integrated.
Your presence deepens. The fragmentation resolves. You're solid in yourself.
Your clarity becomes unshakeable. Your capacity to hold intensity expands.
You stop fearing your strength and discover your authentic power is what she's been craving all along.
Your natural masculine essence comes home into you, into your body.
For men in relationship:
Fights become growth opportunities. You stay present instead of withdrawing. The sex transforms… not just more frequent, but alive with polarity. She opens. Her desire awakens. The nagging stops. She responds naturally becoming soft, grateful and devoted.
For single men:
You stop attracting women who test you endlessly, or dismiss you as a nice guy. The quality of women drawn to you shifts completely. You start magnetising women who trust you, desire you, and want to surrender with you. High-quality women show up from the start, women who want to grow with you… and yes, they are out there aching to meet a man like you.
This is the work that builds the relationship you always knew was possible but didn't have the map to create… yet.
THE PATH
Eight core dimensions of conscious partnership.
Over six months, you'll move through eight core modules of conscious partnership… each one integrating polarity, Gene Keys, authentic relating, and attachment into a complete experience.
Foundations
These two foundational modules explore the underlying patterns
vibrating through your relational life.
PURPOSE & PLEASURE
Orienting to Your
Relational North Star
You need to know the point. She needs to feel the pleasure. Most relationships suffer because these two languages aren't being spoken. This module helps you discover what you're actually building together and how to lead in a way that keeps the journey alive for both of you.
THE CHALLENGE
Understanding Your
Core Relational Patterns
Before transformation comes recognition. We map the exact patterns keeping you stuck… the fights that repeat, the disconnections that compound, the ways you erode connection Not to shame, but to illuminate. When you see the pattern clearly, you're already halfway free.
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Trust
The trustability of a relationship is the bedrock upon
which everything else is built
SAFETY
Structure & Radiance
When you embody structure - clarity, direction, reliability - her natural radiance emerges in response. She can't fully open without your safety, and you can't truly lead without her trust. This is where you create the foundation that makes everything else possible, from a truly relaxed and easeful place.
INTEGRITY
Containment & Discernment
Develop the power of your "No" and your "Yes." This module develops the self-worth and boundaries that make you magnetic. You learn containment, the mastery of your sexual and emotional energy which leads to a higher quality of woman in your life, even if that woman is already your own.
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Intimacy
The living current flowing between you that generates
infinite passion and romance
LOVE
Presence & Openness
Presence is the capacity to hold her fully without needing to fix or change her. Her body responds with openness… revealing her authentic heart. You begin to create conversations that heal instead of harm. Intimacy stops being something frustrating and becomes easy and deep.
EROS
Desire & Penetration
Your clear, confident penetration awakens… not aggressive, but focused and claiming. Her authentic desire responds swelling and aching to receive you. You learn to generate arousal consciously, transforming sex from obligation into the electric current that keeps you magnetically drawn to each other.
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Devotion
The force that transforms a relationship into
something truly sacred
GENEROSITY
Benevolence & Nurturing
Benevolence is the king energy of provision that women are dying to receive. When you bring this embodiment it cannot help but evoke her queen, as she becomes the woman utterly devoted to you. Mutual care and generosity becomes the foundation of everything you build together.
TRANSCENDENCE
Dominance & Submission
Master the art of taking her deeper than she can go alone. You learn conscious dominance… not control, but the attunement and strength that creates the container for her complete surrender. This is where sacred and profane merge and where a relationship becomes truly transcendent.
What's Included…
You're entering a six-month transformational container designed to move from painful old patterns into a new embodied reality.
The Awakened Relating program contains the following elements:
Intimacy Keys Activation
Monthly live sessions to activate your unique keys and move towards the potential that you hold inside.
Personalised Gene Keys Chart
Your unique chart reveals individual shadows, gifts, and how they interact within your partnership.
Masculine/Feminine Embodiment
Dedicated separate & shared men's and women's embodiment sessions each month.
Alchemy Sessions
These live circles work through the shadow patterns holding you back, and release the gifts.
Authentic Relating
Learn powerful communication tools and skills in these practice based sessions.
Attachment Workshops
Practical attachment classes to transform from scared to secure at the level of the body.
Group Coaching
These monthly Hot Seat + Q&A sessions give you dedicated support for the places you get stuck.
Course Content
Pre-recorded bite-sized theory to explore at your own pace and rhythm.
Practice Library
An extensive library of guided practices for both singles and couples to truly embody the work.
Community of Peers
Connect with a network of like-minded couples and individuals to share the journey with.
BONUS: The Resilience Suite
As a special bonus, gain access to the COMPLETE library of
Evolve Relating courses to support your journey.
Explore courses on nervous system regulation, boundaries,
standards, self worth, and more…
(Worth $2195 if purchased separately)
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
You're devoted to a path of healing, growth, and evolution
You're ready to take your relationship - or your capacity to create one - to the next level
You're tired of trying to perform masculinity while feeling disconnected inside
You want to embody your masculine essence as a conscious choice
You're willing to feel what you've been avoiding and show up to do the real work
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
You want dating tactics or manipulation strategies to "get" women
You're looking for tips and tricks to be more "alpha" without doing the deep work
You're not interested in doing your own emotional work or looking honestly at your shadows
You don't want to take responsibility for your part in relationship struggles
You're not willing to be vulnerable
WHY SIX MONTHS?
Because transformation happens in layers.
You don't just learn these principles… you embody them.
You practise the polarities in live contexts with feedback.
You excavate negative patterns and shadows.
You bring more of your gifts to your relational life.
And you build the capacity to hold more complexity and depth.
Six months gives your relational operating system time to reorganise at a fundamental level.
To move from unconscious reactivity to conscious choice.
And discover what becomes possible when you enter a field of conscious co-creation.
Your Investment in the Journey…
Entering into a container like this is a serious intention for transformation.
We invite you to feel deeply into your readiness and desire to show up for a whole new reality.
Payment Plan
6 x $350 USD
Break your investment into 6 monthly payments.
  • Full program access
  • 6 months of transformational classes
  • Personalised Intimacy Keys chart
  • Complete course library
  • Exclusive tools & practices
  • Full community access
  • Bonus: The Resilience Suite
Pay in Full
$1950 USD
Pay in full for peace of mind.
  • Full program access
  • 6 months of transformational classes
  • Personalised Intimacy Keys chart
  • Complete course library
  • Exclusive tools & practices
  • Full community access
  • Bonus: The Resilience Suite
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WHAT PAST PARTICIPANTS HAVE SAID ABOUT THIS WORK…
About the Facilitators
Damien and Katie are the founders of Evolve Relating, where they guide individuals and couples in creating conscious, embodied partnerships.
Damien brings years of experience in coaching and facilitation, alongside training in counselling and psychotherapy. He has a gift for weaving together attachment theory, nervous system science, masculine/feminine polarity, and developmental psychology into frameworks that make complex relational dynamics accessible and practical.
Katie, trained as an Art Therapist and in the Gene Keys, brings a spiritual and intuitive dimension to the work. With a background in energy work and soul embodiment, she has a gift for sensing the wisdom of the subtle realms and translating it into felt experience. She guides people back into their bodies - into their human presence and the innate intelligence that dwells withins.
Together, they live and breathe this work - testing frameworks in their own relationship, moving through challenges in real-time, and holding space for each other's growth. Katie brings the innovative insights; Damien translates them into clear, actionable frameworks in a complementary, co-creative collaboration.
They teach what they live: conscious relationship isn't about perfection, it's about coming back to each other, again and again, with more awareness, more compassion, and more choice.
FAQ - Your Questions Answered
What if I can't make all the live calls?
Every session is recorded and available within 24 hours. Full replay access ensures you receive every transmission whenever you're ready.
When do the live sessions take place?
You can check out class descriptions and the monthly cadence of calls, and times, in multiple timezones here.
How much time can I expect to invest?
Part of the reason for a longer program, 6 months, is so that there is more time and space to go deeper. That being said, expect to dedicate 1-5 hours a week depending on how much you want to engage.
Do I have to attend every session?
No. The program is designed to have multiple layers to it and explores conscious relationship from many angles. You are welcome to follow your own path through the content with what resonates the most with your goals and desires.
What if my partner isn't interested in doing this work?
When you embody these polarities authentically, she WILL respond. You don't need her permission or participation to transform yourself… and when you shift, the field between you naturally changes.
I'm single, is this course right for me?
Absolutely. This work isn't just about reigniting an existing relationship, it's about becoming the kind of man whose very presence reshapes his relational field, and gets what he wants from his love life.
What if my relationship feels too far gone after years of disconnection?
That fear is real and valid. But most men underestimate how quickly a relationship can shift when the conditions change at the level of embodiment. If the relationship still has a pulse, this work can reignite it.
I've already done so much work, how is this different?
This curriculum is holistic. It explore conscious relationship from all the primary aspects required for a deep, thriving, healthy and growth-oriented relationship… taking the best of both worlds, the therapeutic and the spiritual.
Is this work safe if I have relational or sexual trauma?
Yes, and it's designed with that in mind. You'll never be asked to override your nervous system or move faster than your body allows. The program is complete with tools and practices specifically for working with the deeper layers of trauma.
What if my attachment style is causing me a lot of issues?
Most people in this day and age are struggling with insecure attachment due to parenting changes in the last century. This program is designed with that in mind, and includes deep attachment healing work to balance out everything else.

Any questions not answered here?
Contact us: support@evolverelating.com
Not sure yet?
Have more questions? Want to know if it's right for you?
Let's have a real conversation.
This work requires genuine readiness, it's worth taking the time to make sure you are sure.
Let's explore if Awakened Relating is your next evolutionary step.
From performing to presence.
From fragmentation to integration.
From reacting to responding.
From exhaustion to embodied power.
The integrated man within is waiting.
Are you ready?