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Six Intimacy Keys
Six Feminine Polarities
Six Attachment Principles
Six Authentic Relating Skillsets
Deep transformation.
This isn't a course design to fix you,
as if there was something ever wrong wth you.
This is a path to becoming the woman who
evolves in relationship… effortlessly.
A complete curriculum to create the love & life
you always knew was possible.

The distance between you feels insurmountable. You've tried everything… therapy, books, conversations… only to watch him grow more distant, more defensive, more closed.
Every conversation about "the relationship" feels like walking through a minefield. The bedroom feels like a desert rather than an oasis.
You really don't want to leave, but if something doesn't change soon… you might have to.
Not just another nice guy who looks good on paper but doesn't give you that feeling of chemistry you don't want to sacrifice. But also not another unavailable fuckboy either… one of the seemingly endless Peter Pans who try to convince you that polyamory is the highest form of relating.
You're tired of attracting boys when you crave a Man.
Either way, you're done settling for less than what you know you can have.
You want a relationship pulsing with sexual desire, deep connection, and true commitment.
You want to feel alive in a relationship.
Most relationship programs try to teach you one approach to solve everything.
But this is like learning to use just a hammer, and hoping you can build a house.
Awakened Relating weaves four powerful modalities together into a comprehensive framework that addresses every dimension of conscious partnership…
Four approaches integrated into a complete path of relational transformation.
(click any of the headings below to learn more)
Evolutionary Polarity
The secret to sustainable romantic & erotic chemistry Polarity is the magnetic force between masculine and feminine energies that keeps passion alive long after the honeymoon fades. Most couples lose their spark because they've unconsciously neutralised their differences, trying to be the same instead of leveraging what makes them complementary. Evolutionary Polarity is what happens when we go beyond unconscious gender roles and into an intentional practice of using the charge between the masculine and feminine to generate energy, intimacy, attraction and arousal… whenever you want to.
The Intimacy Keys
Your unique relational blueprint for evolutionary growth The Intimacy Keys is a relational lens on the work of the Gene Keys. This work, based on your astrology, reveals specific patterns of shadows, gifts, and higher potentials offering precision guidance tailored to YOUR unique makeup. Through your personalised Intimacy Keys chart that we provide you with, you discover exactly where your biggest blocks live, what gifts are waiting to emerge, and how your shadows play out relationally. This is a developmental map showing you the path from your current patterns to your highest relational potential. When you know your blueprint, you stop working against yourself and start working with the transformation your system is designed for.
Authentic Relating
The art of conscious connection This is your communication toolbox, providing you with the skills to create the spark of intimacy from the get-go, stay connected through conflict, repair from fights, reveal your deepest truths to one another, set healthy boundaries and take a relationship as deep as you want to go. This work transforms how you communicate, not through scripts or formulas, but through developing the skills and capacity to be WITH another human being in real-time. When you master authentic relating your conversations effortlessly become doorways into deeper intimacy.
Attachment Healing
Foundations of a secure relationship Attachment work heals the early wounding that keeps you stuck in reactive patterns… the anxious pursuit, the avoidant withdrawal, and the exhausting push-pull dance that sabotages intimacy. We work with the underlying principles that leads to a safe, secure and balanced nervous system that allows you to choose the right partner, relax into intimacy and feel deeply settled in relationship. Finally you will be able to stop protecting and start really connecting. The more your attachment wounds heal, the deeper the other modalities will land, and the more a relationship will thrive.
You can't think, negotiate or perform your way into a conscious relationship.
Conscious partnership is embodied… it lives in your nervous system, pulses through your body, exists in the unspoken field you create.
The beautiful thing is that all of this already lives inside you. It's in your cells, aching to be activated.
Over six months of living in this work... something fundamental shifts.
You become magnetic.
Your body relaxes. The chronic tension releases. You shine.
Your "no" becomes clean and powerful. Your "yes" is an irresistible invitation.
You stop abandoning yourself and discover your full expression is what's been missing all along.
Your natural feminine essence returns home.
For women in relationship:
Fights become healing experiences. You repair in hours instead of days. The sex is alive again, not just more frequent, but electric. Chemistry becomes something you generate, not something you hope for. He responds. And it often happens quicker than you expect.
For single women:
You stop attracting unavailable, unready, or unaligned partners. The quality of men drawn to you shifts completely. You start calling in men who feel you, cherish you, and want to rise with you. Real men show up clearly from the start, men who want to grow with you… and yes, they are out there looking for a woman like you.
This is the the work that builds the relationship you always knew was possible but didn't have the map to create… yet.
Eight core dimensions of conscious partnership.
Over six months, you'll move through eight core modules of conscious partnership… each one integrating polarity, Gene Keys, authentic relating, and attachment into a complete experience.
These two foundational modules explore the underlying patterns
vibrating through your relational life.

Orienting to Your
Relational North Star
You need to feel the pleasure. He needs to know the point. Most relationships suffer because these two languages aren't being spoken. This module helps you discover what truly lights you up in partnership and how to bring that in a way he can actually hear and rise to meet.

Understanding Your
Core Relational Patterns
Before transformation comes recognition. We map the exact patterns keeping you stuck… the fights that repeat, the disconnections that compound, the ways that erode connection. Not to shame, but to illuminate. When you see the pattern clearly, you're already halfway free.
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The trustability of a relationship is the bedrock upon
which everything else is built

Radiance & Structure
When you embody radiance, his protection naturally rises to meet you. You can't fully open without his safety, and he can't truly lead without your trust. This is where you build the foundation that makes everything else possible… the nervous system security that lets you both finally relax.

Discernment & Containment
Your "no" must be as strong as your "yes." This module develops the self-worth and boundaries that make you magnetic. You learn discernment, when to open and when to close. He responds with containment, directing all his energy toward you. This creates a relationship rooted in the feeling of high value.
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The living current flowing between you that generates
infinite passion and romance

Openness & Presence
This is where hearts meet. You learn to open without armour, which calls forth his presence. You develop the capacity to truly be with each other and have a connection that heals instead of hurts. Intimacy stops being scary and becomes the deepest nourishment.

Desire & Penetration
The erotic circuit comes alive. Your authentic desire awakens. He fully turns towards you in response… clear and claiming. You learn to generate arousal consciously, transforming sex from obligation into the electric current that keeps you magnetically drawn to each other.
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The force that transforms a relationship into
something truly sacred

Nurturing & Benevolence
You give from overflow, not depletion, which evokes his abundant provision. This is the queen and king energy… each supporting the other's flourishing without resentment. Deep care becomes the foundation of everything that is built from here.

Submission & Dominance
The deepest surrender and the strongest attunement. You learn to let go into the ecstasy, which is where real feminine power lies, calling forth his masculine strength. The container is set for your wildest release. This is where sacred and profane merge.
You're entering a six-month transformational container designed to move from painful old patterns into a new embodied reality.
The Awakened Relating program contains the following elements:
Monthly live sessions to activate your unique keys and move towards the potential that you hold inside.
Your unique chart reveals individual shadows, gifts, and how they interact within your partnership.
Dedicated separate & shared men's and women's embodiment sessions each month.
These live circles work through the shadow patterns holding you back, and release the gifts.
Learn powerful communication tools and skills in these practice based sessions.
Practical attachment classes to transform from scared to secure at the level of the body.
These monthly Hot Seat + Q&A sessions give you dedicated support for the places you get stuck.
Pre-recorded bite-sized theory to explore at your own pace and rhythm.
An extensive library of guided practices for both singles and couples to truly embody the work.
Connect with a network of like-minded couples and individuals to share the journey with.

As a special bonus, gain access to the COMPLETE library of
Evolve Relating courses to support your journey.
Explore courses on nervous system regulation, boundaries,
standards, self worth, and more…
(Worth $2195 if purchased separately)
Because transformation happens in layers.
You don't just learn these principles… you embody them.
You practise the polarities in live contexts with feedback.
You excavate negative patterns and shadows.
You bring more of your gifts to your relational life.
And you build the capacity to hold more complexity and depth.
Six months gives your relational operating system time to reorganise at a fundamental level.
To move from unconscious reactivity to conscious choice.
And discover what becomes possible when you enter a field of conscious co-creation.
Entering into a container like this is a serious intention for transformation.
We invite you to feel deeply into your readiness and desire to show up for a whole new reality.
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Damien and Katie are the founders of Evolve Relating, where they guide individuals and couples in creating conscious, embodied partnerships.
Damien brings years of experience in coaching and facilitation, alongside training in counselling and psychotherapy. He has a gift for weaving together attachment theory, nervous system science, masculine/feminine polarity, and developmental psychology into frameworks that make complex relational dynamics accessible and practical.
Katie, trained as an Art Therapist and in the Gene Keys, brings a spiritual and intuitive dimension to the work. With a background in energy work and soul embodiment, she has a gift for sensing the wisdom of the subtle realms and translating it into felt experience. She guides people back into their bodies - into their human presence and the innate intelligence that dwells withins.

Together, they live and breathe this work - testing frameworks in their own relationship, moving through challenges in real-time, and holding space for each other's growth. Katie brings the innovative insights; Damien translates them into clear, actionable frameworks in a complementary, co-creative collaboration.
They teach what they live: conscious relationship isn't about perfection, it's about coming back to each other, again and again, with more awareness, more compassion, and more choice.
Every session is recorded and available within 24 hours. Full replay access ensures you receive every transmission whenever you're ready.
You can check out class descriptions and the monthly cadence of calls, and times, in multiple timezones here.
Part of the reason for a longer program, 6 months, is so that there is more time and space to go deeper. That being said, expect to dedicate 1-5 hours a week depending on how much you want to engage.
No. The program is designed to have multiple layers to it and explores conscious relationship from many angles. You are welcome to follow your own path through the content with what resonates the most with your goals and desires.
No. This work isn't about getting him to do anything, it's about shifting the energy between you. When your frequency shifts, the field recalibrates. He won't feel pressured. He'll feel pulled. You are also welcome to invite him to join.
Absolutely. This work isn't just about reigniting an existing relationship, it's about becoming the kind of woman whose very presence reshapes her relational field, and magnetises what she wants to her.
That fear is real and valid. But most women underestimate how quickly a man can re-attune and re-engage when the right energetic textures are present. If the relationship still has a pulse, this work can reignite it.
This curriculum is holistic. It explore conscious relationship from all the primary aspects required for a deep, thriving, healthy and growth-oriented relationship… taking the best of both worlds, the therapeutic and the spiritual.
Yes, and it's designed with that in mind. You'll never be asked to override your nervous system or move faster than your body allows. The program is complete with tools and practices specifically for working with the deeper layers of trauma.
Most people in this day and age are struggling with insecure attachment due to parenting changes in the last century. This program is designed with that in mind, and includes deep attachment healing work to balance out everything else.
Any questions not answered here?
Contact us: support@evolverelating.com
Have more questions? Want to know if it's right for you?
Let's have a real conversation.
This work requires genuine readiness, it's worth taking the time to make sure you are sure.
Let's explore if Awakened Relating is your next evolutionary step.
From managing to magnetising.
From controlling to charisma.
From performing to presence.
From exhaustion to embodied radiance.
The magnetic woman within is waiting.
Are you ready?
Awakened Relating